Why are you always the one left waiting, hoping, and overgiving—while they pull away?
If you’ve ever begged to be chosen, stayed in relationships where your needs were ignored, or silenced your voice just to be loved… this book was written for you.
Avery Clarke knows what it’s like to feel unworthy in love. To shrink yourself for someone else’s approval. To confuse attention with affection and effort with enoughness. But she also knows what it means to stop chasing—and start reclaiming.
In this empowering 2-in-1 guide, you’ll discover how to stop settling and start healing by learning the art of being “hard to lose.” Inside, you’ll uncover how to:
Break the cycle of self-abandonment that keeps you overgiving in love
Set boundaries without guilt—and actually stick to them
Shift from anxious attachment to secure self-worth
Spot emotionally unavailable people before they cost you your peace
Stop mistaking breadcrumbs for love and reclaim your power in dating
Rebuild your identity after years of people-pleasing and heartbreak
Become the kind of woman who chooses herself first—every time
Even if you’ve been doing the inner work for years…
Even if you’re still tempted to chase the one who keeps letting you down…
Even if part of you believes you’ll never be “enough” to be fully loved—
This book will help you finally close that chapter, and write a new one where you are the prize.
It’s time to stop begging to be chosen—and start choosing yourself.
Buy The Power of Not Chasing Love today and step into the self-worth, confidence, and emotional freedom you’ve always deserved.
Avery Clarke is a passionate advocate for personal healing, emotional empowerment, and spiritual transformation. With a deep understanding of feminine energy and the profound impact of inner child healing and shadow work, Avery writes to inspire women to reconnect with their authentic selves, break free from limiting patterns, and step into their power.
Through her work, Avery combines compassionate insights, practical tools, and transformative guidance, helping readers embrace vulnerability, awaken their intuition, and find balance in their lives. She believes that every woman has the innate strength to heal and thrive, and her writing reflects her unwavering commitment to empowering others on their journeys.
When she’s not writing, Avery enjoys exploring creativity through journaling and painting, connecting with nature on long walks, and finding joy in the quiet moments that nurture her soul. A firm believer in the ripple effect of healing, Avery’s mission is to guide readers toward living in wholeness and alignment—and to inspire them to share that light with others.