Covert Narcissism: Signs of a Covert Narcissist, Ways to Protect Yourself from Their Manipulation and How to Deal With Their Narcissism

Escape the Narcissist
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Covert narcissism is a hidden and concealed form of narcissism, making it all the more difficult for the abuser to be confronted or "outed" for their behavior. Covert narcissism is a passive-aggressive, hostile, and toxic form of abuse that makes victims feel hopeless, unheard, hurt, and confused by the abusers' behavior. 


When you think of a narcissistic personality, it's likely you think of a loud, grandiose, and "look at me" type of character. A lot of people don't realize that there is a much stealthier, more introverted form of narcissism, and therefore covert narcissists can often get away with their toxic behavior without being found out. 


I was in a relationship with a covert narcissist. I know the frustration, disappointment, anger, and humiliation a covert narc can make you feel. I understand the helplessness you feel when you're in a relationship that has such an invisible toxicity that you think no one would believe you if you told them about it. 


This book, driven by my desire to help and connect with other victims of narcissistic abuse, aims to give you the knowledge you need to stand up to covert narcissistic abuse. The chapters include:


What Is a Covert Narcissist? 


The Six Giveaway Signs of a Covert Narcissist 


Can a Covert Narcissist Love? 


Confusing Conversations with a Covert Narcissist 


The Effects Covert Narcissism Has on You 


Setting Boundaries and Interacting with a Covert Narcissist 


Looking After You 


Ways to Leave a Vulnerable Narcissist 


I've been through a decade of narcissism and abuse, and I strive to support those who are or have been through this kind of emotional abuse. I hope this book can someway in helping you understand the dynamics of a narcissistic relationship, but most of all, I hope it helps you find the strength to relinquish your role as a source of narcissistic supply to your abuser.

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4.8
27 reviews
Kimberly Allison
April 29, 2020
A good book to read that helped me realize my marriage is so toxic to me and my mental health. This gave me great ideas of how I need to set boundaries to stop the cycle of abuse, and the seriousness of sticking to my boundaries. I learned how to stop engaging in the circles of endless, draining, conversations that always make me feel like I'm the bad guy for wanting to leave the abusive life I've lived way too long.
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Courtney White
April 24, 2024
Honestly I became triggered several times reading this book. Sometimes paragraphs and whole pages seemed ripped straight from my life. the section on how to maintain control during a conversation with a narcissist is invaluable.
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Keith Sawyer
June 25, 2023
Most definitely worth the couple of hours. Even if only to reassure myself that she's a covert narcissist, been lying, cheating, gaslighting, abusing me for years, and I need her to leave. And no. You can't always see the abuse until it's too late.
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Escape the Narcissist is a publisher that specializes in content geared towards survivors of abuse. Our books and written pieces are all created by people who've lived through and come out of the other side of abuse. We're passionate about sharing or stories and reaching those who will be inspired and helped by them.

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