Revised Edition, which includes the role of Philip the Evangelist as a type of mentor (August 2023).

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A. Summary and B. Reviews on other platforms.

A. Summary

Our journeys are unique, and as we get older we should be better able to help shape the following generations using our gifts and experience. Yet many would-be mentors aren't so sure about how to go about this. Past failures, pride, insecurity, lack of confidence and opportunity in a fragmented Western culture that prizes individualism have helped create seemingly insurmountable obstacles. Reliance on programs and the professionalization of ministry have tended to hinder more natural connections between the generations; systems and organizational expertise may have grown, but often at the expense of personal discipleship.

Drawing on 30 years of ministry experience in four churches across three countries, my aim is to help you consider how you can better mentor an increasingly isolated generation of older teenagers and young adults – those aged roughly between 18 and 30 years. Please find attached the three tables/illustrations for chapter 4; you can print these off if helpful.

By reading this you will:

1. Gain a better understanding of the history of mentoring, and its biblical basis.

2. Better appreciate typical hindrances to effective mentoring.

3. Consider biblical characters who mentored others, and how they point us to Christ.

4. Gain clarity regarding your own unique skills, interests and knowledge.

5. Understand the components essential to a solid mentoring relationship.

6. Recognize how you can start to invest practically in young adults, and put yourself at God's disposal to help them.

B. Reviews

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#5/5 I am in my 6th decade now, and can affirm that the mentors I had in the true faith and practice were mainly distant or dead Christian authors. I have been throughout the spectrum of Bible-believing congregations from Brethren to home church, Southern Baptist to Church of Nigeria, Community churches to the worldwide Anglican Communion, &c. So, I will be reading the rest of this book with great interest. It appears to be spot on, but physical age has nothing to do with spiritual maturity.

There is a great lack of spiritual maturity in our congregations, among the members, regarding our organizational operations, our committees, our elders, our pastors, our outreach to the community, and the flood of worldliness in our language and practices. I'm open to hearing someone experienced explain about how to do this biblically and soundly. So I will be back to continue or amend a review.

Shame on all the cowards in my Christian walk who basically abandoned me in their pursuit of worldly affluence, power, foreign missions, etc. The first mission field is the family and local church, IMO. Lord have mercy. Gralan

#4/5 I've been a mentoring pastor for 40 years in the States, and have met Fraser personally. I've seen first hand how he lives his life with authentic grace, invitation for organic hospitality with his life and home, and how he very naturally mentors relationally.

He has now put in layman's terms, with biblical depth, the historical basis, critical lost art, and helpful steps toward a mentoring lifestyle, whether you are in the church or outside in your neighborhood and workplace. He answers our doubts, questions, and negligent busy-ness to free us to organically shape key lives around us-- and we all have them.

Thank you, Fraser for giving us the time to reflect on the shapers evident in our lives, the fundamentals of how to incorporate mentoring, and the awareness to see what we're losing by not being purposeful mentors to a few key people-- that are already waiting to be asked. Pat Harrison

#5/5 A practical, hands-on guide to mentoring with lots of opportunity to pause for self-reflection. As someone who personally benefited from the author's guidance and encouragement in becoming a mentor, I cannot recommend this book highly enough. Suzy J

Scribd

# 5/5 Short, sweet and to the point. It’s not exhaustive or a how-to manual on mentoring by any means, but it’s a great reminder that discipleship and mentoring is how we are to do church together. Whether pairing up with those who are younger (as is the primary relationship covered in the book) or simply someone who is younger in the faith as you, we are all to walk together in our goal to be more like Jesus. spencerdanielj

#2/5 Needs to be structured Better. Alot of "don't" advice versus do. Bernard Sia