Stop Romanticizing the Red Flags: Because Love Shouldn’t Feel Like Survival
About this audiobook
You called it love, but it felt like a matter of survival.
You kept making excuses.
You silenced your gut.
You clung to chaos, hoping it would turn into calm.
But deep down, you knew: this wasn’t love. It was emotional warfare wrapped in sweet words and temporary highs.
Stop Romanticizing the Red Flags is the brutally honest, deeply healing book you didn’t know you needed.
Written for the overthinkers, over-givers, and over-stayers — this book explores the emotional drama we confuse for intimacy, the ego traps we fall into, and why we keep calling pain "passion."
Inside, you’ll find:
20 raw, relatable chapters that hit hard
Stories that will make you cry, laugh, reflect — and finally see clearly
Powerful insights into emotional addiction, trauma bonds, ego games, and self-sabotage
Journal prompts and healing takeaways for every chapter
This isn’t just a book.
It’s a reality check, a therapy session, and a warm hug all in one.
If you're done accepting breadcrumbs, doubting your worth, or mistaking toxicity for love — it’s time to break the cycle.
Because love should never feel like walking on eggshells.
About the author
Shakir Amin is a modern-day truth-teller, emotional clarity coach, and writer with a no-nonsense approach to healing, self-worth, and inner transformation. Blending raw honesty with deep insight, he writes for anyone who’s tired of the emotional chaos, done with pretending, and ready to rebuild from the inside out.
With a background in mindset coaching and a deep passion for emotional wellness, Shakir helps people untangle from toxic patterns, recognize their self-sabotaging behaviors, and reconnect with their inner strength. His work speaks to the overthinkers, the people-pleasers, and the silent strugglers — those who want real change, not fluffy inspiration.
Through his books, workshops, and digital content, he’s creating a movement for those who are ready to stop romanticizing pain and start choosing peace.
When he's not writing or speaking to broken hearts, you’ll find him sipping coffee, overanalyzing human behavior, or quietly journaling his next soul-shaking truth.
