You'll Never Believe Me: A Life of Lies, Second Tries, and Things I Should Only Tell My Therapist

· Macmillan Audio · Narrated by Kari Ferrell
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The compelling, edgy, compassionate, laugh-out-loud memoir from Kari Ferrell, formerly known as the "Hipster Grifter"


Before Anna Delvey, before the Tinder Swindler, there was Kari Ferrell. Adopted at a young age by a Mormon family in Utah, Kari struggled with questions of self-worth and identity as one of the few Asian Americans in her insulated community, leading her to run with the “bad crowd” in an effort to fit in. Soon, stealing from superstores turned into picking up men (and picking their pockets), and before she knew it, Kari had graduated from petty theft to Utah’s most wanted list. Though Kari was able to escape the Southwest, she couldn’t outrun her new moniker: the Hipster Grifter.

New York City’s indie sleaze scene had found its newest celebrity—just as Kari found herself in a heap of trouble. Jail time, riots, bad checks, and an explosion of internet infamy and fetishization put her name in the spotlight. Beyond the gossip and Gawker posts, there’s a side to Kari the media never saw—until now.

By turns rollicking and irreverent, warm and compassionate, You’ll Never Believe Me tells Kari’s story for the first time. A heartfelt narrative of redemption and reconciliation as Kari eventually dedicates her life to activism, social justice, and setting the record straight, this memoir introduces a fresh, hilarious new voice to the literary stage and offers readers a nostalgic, uplifting, and at times unbelievable book that grapples with truth, why we lie, and what it means when our pasts don’t paint the whole picture.

A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press.

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3.0
2 reviews
Julie Bradford
January 8, 2025
I've been trying to broaden my reading horizons beyond my usual thrillers. I stumbled upon a memoir that caught my eye: "You'll Never Believe This." I was intrigued, thinking it might offer a captivating story. Instead, it felt like I was tuning into a stand-up routine where the comedian narrated someone else's chaotic life. My opinion is a bit different from the majority, so keep that in mind! The audiobook is self-narrated by Kari, the notorious "Hipster Grifter." I'd never heard of her before, but apparently, she had quite a reputation. As I listened, I couldn't shake the feeling that she was almost proud of her actions, laughing them off without an ounce of remorse. She conned friends who were already struggling by spinning a tale of having cancer—who does that?! Her lack of reflection on how her schemes hurt those around her was chilling. Kari paints herself as quirky and relatable, trying to charm her way into people's hearts only to exploit them later. I found it hard to connect with her. I might have enjoyed the book more if someone else had narrated it. When her life began to unravel in Utah, instead of facing her problems, she dashed off to New York, only to repeat the same destructive patterns with a new set of victims. Anyone who offered her a helping hand quickly became her next target, including her own family. The blurb calls her someone forced to run with the "wrong crowd" to fit in, but it seems she was the definition of the "wrong crowd" herself. I thought about not finishing this story, but I wanted to know if Kari paid all her retribution, made amends with friends and family, and got her life back on track. Thanks to the author, Macmillan Audio, and St. Martin's Press for the ARCs I received through NetGalley and Google Play. All opinions are my own and left voluntarily.
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About the author

KARI FERRELL is a producer, writer, speaker, activist, and creator. Her work is centered around incarceration and the justice system, mental health, human rights, and other issues she feels passionately about. Kari’s production company, Without Wax, is dedicated to uplifting and telling stories from Women of Color across a variety of mediums. She enjoys the work she does with Second Chance Studios, Books Through Bars, the American Civil Liberties Union, and other groups that are working toward liberation for all. When she’s not doing the above, she enjoys spending time with her partner and rescue pup, solving crossword puzzles, eating, boxing (to counteract the eating), getting stoned, and writing about herself in the third person.

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